Sept. 29, 2023

Stressed Out? Discover the Art of Letting Go: Say Goodbye to Perfectionism! With Valerie

Stressed Out? Discover the Art of Letting Go: Say Goodbye to Perfectionism! With Valerie
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Are you tired of constantly feeling stressed and overwhelmed by the pressure to be perfect? In this eye-opening video, we delve into the art of letting go and saying goodbye to perfectionism. Learn powerful techniques and mindset shifts that will help you embrace imperfection, reduce stress levels, and live a more fulfilling life. Don't miss out on this transformative journey - Listen Now!Key Take-Aways From The Episode

  1. Understanding Perfectionism: The podcast delves into the concept of perfectionism and how it can lead to stress and anxiety. It emphasizes the need to recognize the signs of perfectionism in ourselves.
  2. Negative Impacts on Mental Health: Perfectionism can have severe repercussions on mental health, causing feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, and burnout. The podcast highlights the importance of addressing these issues.
  3. Mindfulness and Self-Awareness: One effective way to combat perfectionism is through mindfulness and self-awareness. The episode explores techniques and practices that help individuals become more self-aware of their perfectionistic tendencies.
  4. Setting Realistic Expectations: Learning to set realistic expectations for oneself is a crucial step in letting go of perfectionism. The podcast discusses practical strategies for managing expectations and embracing imperfection.

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Today, I have my friend Valerie here. Welcome

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to another episode of Crazy Fitness Guys Healthy

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Living Podcast. That's a mouthful, especially

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on a Friday. Holy moly. Today, I have my friend

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Valerie here. It's funny. I usually have people

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fill out a form to be on my podcast, but I don't

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know what happened to it. Maybe I got lost in

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the shuffle of switching tools. Knit yourself.

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Don't do that again. Welcome, Valerie. Thanks

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so much for having me, Jimmy. I'm glad to reconnect.

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So tell me a little bit about yourself. Yes.

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So I host the podcast Future Proof Career. I

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call myself a recovering career stressaholic.

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combat and squash that career anxiety and take

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control of their futures. And what made you want

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to get into that kind of career? Yeah. So yeah,

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like I said, I'm a recovering career stressaholic

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and I still am recovering from that. Um, just

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the sense of, oh my gosh, I could lose my job

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any day and what's going to happen to me. I'm

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not going to be able to support myself. I have

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a family now and how am I going to support them?

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And I've just been noticing that regardless of

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what industry you're in. If you work for the

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government, if you're a teacher, if you're working

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for a large corporation, a small company, everyone

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seems to be anxious now about their livelihood,

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about the futures. So my show is helping listeners

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combat that and give them the skills they need

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to take back that control of their futures. So

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we talk a lot about soft skills that you need.

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A lot of jobs are being automated by robots.

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That was... um expedited with covid of course

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and what can you do to compete with these robots

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you know can you analyze data can you improve

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your communication skills um improve your relationships

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and your network so i have a lot of guests on

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to talk about that and i do some solo shows where

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we really dig into to those different aspects

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of it now when you say robots do you think maybe

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some Jobs are OK being replaced with robots like,

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you know, let's say sometimes customer service,

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depending how well that robot is trained. I know

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like for sometimes like with Amazon, they have

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a robotic chat bot and it can pretty much get

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all your order information. So if you would just

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want a refund, you can just do without even.

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talking to anyone on the phone. Yes. But sometimes

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when you're talking to, I don't know, Comcast

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customer service, the lovely name brand and everything,

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and no one, you can't understand the person on

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the phone. And it's like, man, why do they have

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customer service again? I know. Is it really

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customer service? Because I don't really sense

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the service part. Yeah, I totally agree. But

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I think automation is a great thing. I mean,

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really, if it makes jobs safer, if it allows

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human beings to have the opportunity to make

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an impact in a different way, I think that's

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a great thing. And from the business perspective,

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it makes sense. You can't fight it. A lot of

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jobs can be automated and should be. So they

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should do that. It's just a matter of the individual

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who's in that role to be aware that that's a

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risk and to be, I guess, self -aware enough to

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know what to do, to have an alternate plan if

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their job was to be eliminated. And what are

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some of the tips that you go for? What are some

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helpful strategies? Anything that makes you a

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human is a good thing to focus on. That's kind

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of been the trend. So that's communication skills.

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Can you speak directly and clearly in a way that's

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not necessarily going to offend somebody? Can

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you make your point? In a way that makes it clear

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so that person knows what you need to do. Can

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you lead that individual or can you lead a group

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of people and mobilize them to want to reach

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the same goal that you're wanting to reach? You

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know, a robot's never going to be able to be

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a leader in that sense. Maybe some people could

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argue with that, but, you know, most likely in

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our lifetime, that's not going to happen. I've

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seen. A lot of people, which is it's kind of

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interesting, a trend of speaking in terms of

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like being on stage. So there's a lot of like

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I had a politician who had an acting background.

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So people who are sort of more in tune with the

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arts is a trend that I've been seeing. So, yeah,

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I mean, like I would say, probably the best way

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to sum it up is just be be a human being and

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be an authentic person. And that's going to make

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you stand out. Well, that's what I try to do

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on social media every single day to be human.

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I'm messed up on quite a few things. I even admitted

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it on social media. Oh, what did you mess up

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on? Well, surprisingly. I messed up the date

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of when the Golden Globes were. Oh. Well, I mean,

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to be honest, it used to be in January, but then

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COVID came and now they moved it all the way

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to the last weekend in February. And it's like,

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how am I supposed to stay up on top of all of

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this? I haven't watched in years. I'm not going

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to watch it again this year because, yeah. horrible

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movie music uh have you heard of the movie uh

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oh music i haven't heard of that yeah it's a

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it's a really uh let's just say it's they portray

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autism to be like the worst thing in the world

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uh and i'm not buying a movie ticket to that

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and has a thousand bad reviews and it has two

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um nominations for Golden Globes, and I hope

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it does not win. But have you heard the drama

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about Emily in Paris? I don't think so. Yeah.

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So this made headlines because I don't know if

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you've seen Emily in Paris. I have. It is not

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award worthy. I think most people would agree

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to that. And it sounds like the showrunners flew

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out all of these people from the Golden Globes.

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I don't know what they're called, whatever they're.

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organization is and treated them to like really

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fancy hotels and food and whatever so people

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are like well that kind of it's a little bit

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sketchy you know like are they just getting this

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nomination because they got all this great treatment

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so you know who knows maybe with the movie music

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that happened to you never know so uh how many

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people do you help people one -on -one or do

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you just help people uh through your show Yeah,

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I help people one -on -one too. I've helped a

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few clients that are earlier stages in their

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career. Because I think when we think about people

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who have career anxiety, you think of people

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who have been in a position for a long time and

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maybe their job's being phased out. But I'm seeing

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that career anxiety happening earlier too, which

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makes sense. So people who are in probably year

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one to five in their career, I'm helping them

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mostly at this point. Have you ever had a motivational

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speaker? Be one of my clients? No, I haven't.

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Do you think they would be a good client to have?

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I don't know. I'm just asking for a friend. Or

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me. Well, yeah, Jimmy, let's make it happen.

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So how many years have you been up and running

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for? Not years. It's been months since September

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of last year. And I do three shows a week. So

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I'm really hitting the ground running with it.

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Gee. Yeah. I don't think I could do that. That's

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what everybody says. But I was inspired by Jenny

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Blake. She has a show called Pivot. And she did

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for a while. She did daily shows. And she said

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that it helped her overcome her perfectionism.

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And when I started the show, it like I was so

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sick about it, like just the pushing publish

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button. I was so stressed that it wasn't perfect.

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It took me hours to edit it. It was not sustainable.

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So doing it three times a week has helped me

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immensely with that perfectionism. For me, I

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just know. I know I can't do it because it's

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not because I'm lazy. It is I run my own website.

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I have my own blog. I guess I'm still in school.

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Yeah, you have a lot going on. Yeah. And I speak

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on many different podcasts as guests and conventions.

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And it's like, no thanks. Yeah. Well, that's

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a good point, though, too. And that's something

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that can help people future -proof themselves

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is knowing how to manage your time and to spend

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your time in ways that strategically make sense.

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And if it doesn't make sense to you to do three

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episodes a week, and I think you do once a month,

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I mean, if that's fine, then that works. I got

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1 ,500 total plays for once a month. That's awesome.

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Oh, total plays. Well, that's still good. I mean,

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if you think about it, this was the advice I

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was given. If you think about 1 ,500 people in

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a room, that's a lot of listeners. Yeah. Again,

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I don't know my total subscribers because it's

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only an estimate. Yeah, it's not good. People

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out there who are innovators, this is an opportunity

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for you to come up with better podcast metrics.

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Yes, in this case, you need a human to figure

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this out. How can I know my total RSS subscribers,

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newsletter subscribers, social media followers?

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Podcasts, we've fallen short. Yeah, it's strange

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because you would think it would be a lot easier

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than it is. Yeah. And you know the total number

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of people visiting your website, but you can't

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know the total number of people who's listening.

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Yeah, it doesn't make sense. You have an estimate

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of 133. So you mean there could be more or less?

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How do you market this? Yeah, it's tough. What's

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people's interest? Well, this show is doing a

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lot, have a lot of plays. I don't know. Speaking

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of podcasts, are you on Clubhouse, Jimmy? No.

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Do you know what Clubhouse is? I've heard about

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it. I heard that they also got a data breach

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the other day. Oh, they did? I did not know that.

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Yeah. It was like a huge data breach. Now government

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is looking into that. And I'm like, really? How

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do you get a data breach already? That's quick.

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I was wondering, too, what data do they have?

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It's all audio. People's voices? I guess, maybe.

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I don't know. Well, anyway, Jimmy, I was going

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to tell you I love Clubhouse. Maybe I shouldn't

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go there. Yeah, it's nice. It's kind of like

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podcasting, but you can speak back and forth.

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As the listener, you can engage, which is pretty

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cool. Yeah, someone invited me to Clubhouse,

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but I told them, I can't be on one more social

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media platform. I feel like you'd be good on

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it, though, especially as a speaker. I think

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that would be a good fit for you. Yeah, maybe.

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I'll try it in the summer. I don't know. Yeah.

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Yeah. If it's still around, it sounds like it

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might be going through a rough patch. Look what

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they say about Facebook when they first started.

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Yeah, that's true. Now people either love it

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or hate it. Yeah. I'm in the middle. Do you use

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Facebook much or what social media tool do you

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use? I use a lot. I use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram.

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I use LinkedIn, pretty much every podcasting

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platform. Yeah. Maybe not a hundred, maybe not

00:14:32.350 --> 00:14:34.309
all of them because there's so many gosh darn

00:14:34.309 --> 00:14:36.669
podcast platforms. Yeah, there are. And they

00:14:36.669 --> 00:14:38.330
pop up and it's like, wait, I've never heard

00:14:38.330 --> 00:14:41.049
of this. Never heard of this? I heard of Hydrogen

00:14:41.049 --> 00:14:43.169
a little while ago. I was like, okay, that's

00:14:43.169 --> 00:14:45.629
new. I mean, maybe they have better analytics.

00:14:45.809 --> 00:14:49.740
Maybe I should look into them. Is it free? Right.

00:14:49.940 --> 00:14:52.480
Yeah, it's a good question. I don't know. I might

00:14:52.480 --> 00:14:55.320
have to check them out now. I'll send you a link.

00:14:55.720 --> 00:14:58.379
You put it in the show notes. Yeah, show notes.

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So if somebody was struggling and I don't know,

00:15:07.539 --> 00:15:10.600
let's use me as an example. Somebody was struggling

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for looking to get more speaking gigs and whatnot.

00:15:20.100 --> 00:15:23.940
how would I go about doing that? I mean, may

00:15:23.940 --> 00:15:27.860
not necessarily speaking opportunities, but if

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I'm afraid, did I just do my last one or is anybody

00:15:32.500 --> 00:15:36.919
ever, am I becoming dry, stale, boring, et cetera?

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Yeah. Yeah. So I, the pillars of my program are

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stamp. So savings have savings. And that has

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helped me a lot. You know, if you're worried

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about not getting your next gig, maybe you're

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going to get laid off. If you have a buffer,

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a financial buffer, that's really going to help

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you feel better about that. So, you know, stock

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up on some cash, have a little have more than

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what some of the experts say. I would suggest

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having it. at least 10 ,000 per what your salary

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is per month. So if you make like 50 ,000 a year,

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try to have at least a five month buffer in addition

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to whatever else you're going to need. So have

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savings, work on your transferable skills. So

00:16:20.120 --> 00:16:23.960
for you, Jimmy, that might be like your networking,

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your sales, your marketing, you know, work on

00:16:27.120 --> 00:16:28.960
those skills. That's going to help you get your

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name out there a little bit more. Amaze your

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employer, continue doing great work, you know,

00:16:33.279 --> 00:16:36.019
follow up. send follow -up emails, send thank

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yous. So I think a lot of people get so stressed

00:16:38.659 --> 00:16:41.659
out that they forget to do the work that they're

00:16:41.659 --> 00:16:44.500
supposed to be doing. So keep doing awesome things.

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And then I think a big thing for this would be

00:16:47.240 --> 00:16:53.100
mindset. That's the M in stamp. So why do you

00:16:53.100 --> 00:16:55.919
think you're done after every gig? You know,

00:16:55.940 --> 00:16:59.120
that's not a healthy way to be living. That's

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not really a mindset of abundance. So, you know,

00:17:04.570 --> 00:17:06.069
continually reassess that. Why do I feel like

00:17:06.069 --> 00:17:08.769
that? This is this reality, or is this just my

00:17:08.769 --> 00:17:12.829
anxiety sinking in? And then P is have a plan

00:17:12.829 --> 00:17:16.390
B. So I know speakers were hit hard with COVID,

00:17:16.509 --> 00:17:19.210
you know, that's reality. So have some sort of

00:17:19.210 --> 00:17:21.250
plan B for you too. So, you know, like, well,

00:17:21.309 --> 00:17:23.869
if speaking doesn't work out, I can do this other

00:17:23.869 --> 00:17:27.490
thing. I, I don't know. I have a course or I

00:17:27.490 --> 00:17:31.799
do. physical training or athletic training or

00:17:31.799 --> 00:17:33.920
whatever it is. So that kind of helps too, to

00:17:33.920 --> 00:17:35.960
know like, Hey, if this thing doesn't work out,

00:17:36.000 --> 00:17:38.019
I'm mitigating my risk. I have this other thing

00:17:38.019 --> 00:17:39.680
that I can push on a little harder if something

00:17:39.680 --> 00:17:45.539
does happen. So good tips because I mean, I don't

00:17:45.539 --> 00:17:50.400
feel that way. I just, I just thought of some

00:17:50.400 --> 00:17:54.420
weird example. I don't know. Well, and I think

00:17:54.420 --> 00:17:57.640
for the mindset piece, too, is and what's tough

00:17:57.640 --> 00:17:59.480
for me, it's like put it out into the world.

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Just say like on all your social media, hey,

00:18:01.880 --> 00:18:04.480
I'm looking for more speaking gigs. Anybody know

00:18:04.480 --> 00:18:06.119
anyone, you know, and just start putting yourself

00:18:06.119 --> 00:18:08.599
out there more. And it may not result in anything,

00:18:08.720 --> 00:18:11.279
but it might. And just by you like putting it

00:18:11.279 --> 00:18:13.680
out there more, you might see more opportunities

00:18:13.680 --> 00:18:18.140
come to you. I also noticed that there's just

00:18:18.140 --> 00:18:24.180
by. I know for myself that, maybe not even for

00:18:24.180 --> 00:18:26.759
myself, but I know there's some days where I

00:18:26.759 --> 00:18:31.339
do feel kind of nervous about certain things.

00:18:31.339 --> 00:18:34.980
Just like, am I doing enough to get my name out

00:18:34.980 --> 00:18:45.920
there? That's funny. Yesterday, I had one of

00:18:45.920 --> 00:18:49.259
my blog posts that was recently published a week

00:18:49.259 --> 00:18:52.940
ago. Yeah, a week ago. It feels like a lifetime

00:18:52.940 --> 00:18:59.480
ago. And I was using a new tool for my researching

00:18:59.480 --> 00:19:06.519
process because I like to... My one main focus

00:19:06.519 --> 00:19:10.140
this year, and I have many different focuses,

00:19:10.220 --> 00:19:12.839
but my most important one is to work smarter,

00:19:13.099 --> 00:19:17.680
not harder. Yeah. Because I want to be able to...

00:19:18.359 --> 00:19:21.440
provide great value i want to keep showing up

00:19:21.440 --> 00:19:25.440
but if it's going to take me 10 hours to do this

00:19:25.440 --> 00:19:30.160
one thing i hope it's not yeah but it could sometimes

00:19:30.160 --> 00:19:32.960
it does yeah and i'm not saying that i don't

00:19:32.960 --> 00:19:36.099
enjoy what i do but i'm thinking it's like is

00:19:36.099 --> 00:19:38.240
there a smarter way of doing this instead of

00:19:38.240 --> 00:19:43.359
just doing everything manually because there's

00:19:43.359 --> 00:19:45.599
so many questions that could be asked in google

00:19:46.430 --> 00:19:49.329
And you have no idea what you can cover. And

00:19:49.329 --> 00:19:54.450
you want to have a thorough post. And so I found

00:19:54.450 --> 00:20:00.869
this tool. And the other, I think it was this

00:20:00.869 --> 00:20:04.690
year, beginning of this year. And they were doing

00:20:04.690 --> 00:20:08.450
this like one -time purchase thing. Their regular

00:20:08.450 --> 00:20:13.089
plans cost like $5 ,000, $500 a month. And it's

00:20:13.089 --> 00:20:16.269
like, holy crap. And it's like. Maybe I should

00:20:16.269 --> 00:20:25.069
get one of these codes to try it. In the worst

00:20:25.069 --> 00:20:29.470
case, I get 60 days money back guaranteed for

00:20:29.470 --> 00:20:33.829
any reason. And what's funny, one of my articles

00:20:33.829 --> 00:20:39.289
was shared on a Facebook page from this company

00:20:39.289 --> 00:20:43.430
that has 69 ,000 likes and followers on it. I'm

00:20:43.430 --> 00:20:47.730
like, That's the first time ever that my blog

00:20:47.730 --> 00:20:51.630
post has gotten shared on a company's Facebook

00:20:51.630 --> 00:20:56.089
page. Wow. So it worked. Yeah. I'm like, I love

00:20:56.089 --> 00:20:58.710
eTool. It's like the best thing I've ever purchased.

00:20:59.210 --> 00:21:01.089
Oh, wow. Do you know the name of it? What is

00:21:01.089 --> 00:21:07.690
this thing? It's called Market Muse. So far,

00:21:07.750 --> 00:21:12.339
I've found it helpful. It's kind of cool. And

00:21:12.339 --> 00:21:15.920
again, for people who's listening to this, I'm

00:21:15.920 --> 00:21:19.400
not an affiliate pro marketer for it and I'm

00:21:19.400 --> 00:21:23.279
not a partner with it. I've used it twice so

00:21:23.279 --> 00:21:27.279
far. And just because of my weekly blog posts

00:21:27.279 --> 00:21:35.119
and I do it once a week, researching for my posts.

00:21:35.460 --> 00:21:37.599
And what's kind of cool with it too, they tell

00:21:37.599 --> 00:21:42.180
you, hey uh here's what your competitors are

00:21:42.180 --> 00:21:45.960
ranking for here and like and the color codes

00:21:45.960 --> 00:21:49.480
stuff for you and it shows you it's like here's

00:21:49.480 --> 00:21:52.079
what they haven't covered and i think the red

00:21:52.079 --> 00:21:56.980
one uh is that it i think the red means that

00:21:56.980 --> 00:21:59.960
they either covered i forget the color coding

00:21:59.960 --> 00:22:03.279
uh yeah you can use people can use like google

00:22:03.279 --> 00:22:06.000
it and what the color coding means but But it

00:22:06.000 --> 00:22:08.440
tells you what the competitors covered and what

00:22:08.440 --> 00:22:13.799
they haven't covered. And even if they covered

00:22:13.799 --> 00:22:16.740
something, you can still cover it, but make it

00:22:16.740 --> 00:22:19.779
your own because Google likes people making their

00:22:19.779 --> 00:22:23.980
own. But just including it helps a little bit

00:22:23.980 --> 00:22:27.400
to get your name out there and say, hey, look,

00:22:27.579 --> 00:22:31.900
I know what I'm talking about with this topic

00:22:31.900 --> 00:22:35.299
and here and there. And I have my own experience

00:22:35.299 --> 00:22:40.640
with this topic. And so I find it pretty helpful.

00:22:40.740 --> 00:22:43.259
And when I saw that, I was like, I don't know

00:22:43.259 --> 00:22:45.839
if this is because of this tool, but what I was

00:22:45.839 --> 00:22:50.400
doing before was not really working. But I saw

00:22:50.400 --> 00:22:54.440
a difference. I haven't yet pinpointed this tool,

00:22:54.519 --> 00:22:58.599
but hell, if anything's working, sure, it's worth

00:22:58.599 --> 00:23:02.039
the money for me. Yeah. It sounds kind of like,

00:23:03.210 --> 00:23:06.230
TubeBuddy on YouTube, you can type in your keywords

00:23:06.230 --> 00:23:09.109
for your YouTube video and it tells you if that

00:23:09.109 --> 00:23:11.910
keyword is strong or not based off of the demand

00:23:11.910 --> 00:23:16.710
of that phrase that you're using and how saturated

00:23:16.710 --> 00:23:20.289
it is. So like I looked up like business school

00:23:20.289 --> 00:23:22.509
is overly saturated, but business school right

00:23:22.509 --> 00:23:25.519
out of undergrad is a better one to use. But

00:23:25.519 --> 00:23:28.680
yeah, I like that. I've heard some tips for podcasters

00:23:28.680 --> 00:23:31.740
that to grow your audience, you need to figure

00:23:31.740 --> 00:23:34.400
out what your audience wants by looking at Google

00:23:34.400 --> 00:23:37.019
search metrics and things like that. And I wasn't

00:23:37.019 --> 00:23:39.559
sure how to do that. So I'll have to check out

00:23:39.559 --> 00:23:44.000
that tool. It saves a lot of hours of Googling

00:23:44.000 --> 00:23:50.279
stuff. I even have a keyword research tool. I

00:23:50.279 --> 00:23:55.980
still use that. just to find my main topic. But

00:23:55.980 --> 00:24:00.359
then when I find, oh, here's what I want to rank

00:24:00.359 --> 00:24:04.119
for and what I want to go after for, then I plug

00:24:04.119 --> 00:24:07.400
into this tool and say, oh, it gives me so many

00:24:07.400 --> 00:24:11.240
different alternatives of what I can put in the

00:24:11.240 --> 00:24:16.640
copy and whatnot. I hit the jackpot. Awesome.

00:24:16.759 --> 00:24:20.759
I'll have to try it out. Yeah, I can send you

00:24:20.759 --> 00:24:24.720
the link to it after the show. Sure, yeah. And

00:24:24.720 --> 00:24:26.200
I think you should reach out to them to be a

00:24:26.200 --> 00:24:31.940
sponsor too. Yeah, I probably should. Right.

00:24:32.279 --> 00:24:36.240
No, we don't do sponsors. Yeah, you never know.

00:24:36.940 --> 00:24:41.019
Mindset. Companies don't want us to pay extra.

00:24:42.119 --> 00:24:45.900
Yeah, yeah, I know. But they've got budgets,

00:24:46.059 --> 00:24:51.700
so. Yeah. Get your customer service first, depending

00:24:51.700 --> 00:24:54.960
on if they're bad or not. I'm not going to name

00:24:54.960 --> 00:25:02.559
any names. Sorry, I just sneezed. Yeah, I don't

00:25:02.559 --> 00:25:09.900
think they're known for that. So do you enjoy

00:25:09.900 --> 00:25:13.359
what you do? Do you enjoy helping people for

00:25:13.359 --> 00:25:20.180
your career? Yeah, I do. I do enjoy that. And

00:25:20.180 --> 00:25:23.960
with podcasting, I think it's brought on so many

00:25:23.960 --> 00:25:26.619
other things too. Like personally, I've grown

00:25:26.619 --> 00:25:29.480
my network. We wouldn't have met without podcasting.

00:25:29.480 --> 00:25:32.400
I think that's awesome. And it's also helped

00:25:32.400 --> 00:25:36.400
me with my own personal confidence too. I just

00:25:36.400 --> 00:25:38.769
talked to... Another guest and I'll, I'll be

00:25:38.769 --> 00:25:40.849
sharing it soon. And we talked about how, you

00:25:40.849 --> 00:25:43.890
know, we feel like now our, our voice is out

00:25:43.890 --> 00:25:46.170
there into the world and our voice matters. And

00:25:46.170 --> 00:25:48.890
I think that's a huge personal win for me as

00:25:48.890 --> 00:25:52.630
well. So yeah, some personal things as well as

00:25:52.630 --> 00:25:55.589
just the excitement of helping other people too.

00:25:56.589 --> 00:26:01.750
I agree with you as well. I've, I know for myself.

00:26:03.579 --> 00:26:08.420
I like the feeling that I get to know that, hey,

00:26:08.480 --> 00:26:18.160
people want to know what I have to say. I know

00:26:18.160 --> 00:26:26.559
for myself, I know I get tired of watching the

00:26:26.559 --> 00:26:32.849
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00:26:32.849 --> 00:26:36.269
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00:26:36.630 --> 00:26:42.369
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00:26:42.650 --> 00:26:48.930
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why do I want to piss off half of my audience?

00:27:54.730 --> 00:27:58.730
Yeah. Yeah. It's like what Johnny Carson said,

00:27:58.849 --> 00:28:03.349
the talk show who used to be around and he has

00:28:03.349 --> 00:28:05.470
to say, why would I want to piss off 50 % of

00:28:05.470 --> 00:28:10.609
my audience? I wouldn't. I think that that's

00:28:10.609 --> 00:28:12.849
true, but sometimes there may be a point where

00:28:12.849 --> 00:28:16.890
it's worth pissing off some people too. You know,

00:28:16.910 --> 00:28:19.529
like you were talking about how that movie, you

00:28:19.529 --> 00:28:22.289
know, maybe wasn't, really portraying autistic

00:28:22.289 --> 00:28:26.230
people in the correct way you know you might

00:28:26.230 --> 00:28:28.430
offend somebody like i love that movie i've worked

00:28:28.430 --> 00:28:30.789
on that movie you know and and it's okay it's

00:28:30.789 --> 00:28:33.690
worth it to you just to say something like that

00:28:33.690 --> 00:28:36.609
i think so just kind of knowing yourself and

00:28:36.609 --> 00:28:38.950
knowing when it's worth the fight and when it's

00:28:38.950 --> 00:28:44.150
not well uh i forgot to mention about the movie

00:28:44.150 --> 00:28:49.150
it's also uh 45 ,000 people signed a petition

00:28:49.150 --> 00:28:54.710
from the autism community, and no one liked it.

00:28:55.309 --> 00:28:58.890
Oh, really? It just generally wasn't a good movie

00:28:58.890 --> 00:29:04.970
either. Yeah, I mean, people want this to be

00:29:04.970 --> 00:29:09.029
even considered for the two Golden Globes that

00:29:09.029 --> 00:29:13.539
it's nominated for. And they put it in the movie

00:29:13.539 --> 00:29:18.099
category slash music slash comedy. If that's

00:29:18.099 --> 00:29:22.339
a comedy, that's very sick. Really? Yeah. I'm

00:29:22.339 --> 00:29:27.380
like, that's a stretch. Maybe you should just

00:29:27.380 --> 00:29:31.359
put it in the category called music because perhaps

00:29:31.359 --> 00:29:33.819
it did have really good music in it. I don't

00:29:33.819 --> 00:29:37.500
know because I'm not watching it. And I'm not

00:29:37.500 --> 00:29:40.380
going to. uh, pay for a movie ticket that somebody

00:29:40.380 --> 00:29:43.259
has a strong opinion that I need to be fixed.

00:29:43.880 --> 00:29:47.019
Yeah. Yeah. I think that this though, is what

00:29:47.019 --> 00:29:49.319
makes you have a good platform though. You know

00:29:49.319 --> 00:29:51.599
what you stand for and you stand for it. You

00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:54.079
know, you don't agree with that movie. I think

00:29:54.079 --> 00:29:55.720
people want to hear that. They don't want to

00:29:55.720 --> 00:29:58.119
hear someone who's sort of wishy -washy about

00:29:58.119 --> 00:30:00.460
things like, well, maybe it's okay. I don't know.

00:30:00.559 --> 00:30:03.099
You know? So I think to have that conviction

00:30:03.099 --> 00:30:06.160
about what do you believe makes people want to

00:30:06.160 --> 00:30:10.130
listen to the show. And I also tried to, I even

00:30:10.130 --> 00:30:13.609
tell people, I was like, if you, if you like,

00:30:13.769 --> 00:30:17.410
I was like, if you have a different opinion than

00:30:17.410 --> 00:30:21.089
me, sure. I was like, I don't mind. And I was

00:30:21.089 --> 00:30:23.829
like, tell me what your thoughts are. Tell me

00:30:23.829 --> 00:30:28.279
how you're feeling. And I was like. I was like,

00:30:28.279 --> 00:30:31.039
we don't need to fight about it. I'm open to

00:30:31.039 --> 00:30:33.779
discussion. I can see different people's points

00:30:33.779 --> 00:30:37.579
of views on stuff. I'm an open -minded person.

00:30:38.299 --> 00:30:40.480
Yeah, be open -minded, but then still stand for

00:30:40.480 --> 00:30:42.960
something. Yeah. I'm not one of those people

00:30:42.960 --> 00:30:45.559
that's like, la, la, la, not listening, la, la,

00:30:45.559 --> 00:30:50.500
la, la. Yeah. Yeah. I was like, I have a newsfeed

00:30:50.500 --> 00:30:52.480
reader. I can read from different perspectives.

00:30:52.519 --> 00:30:56.700
Like, one person says this. The movie music is

00:30:56.700 --> 00:31:00.519
awesome and people should go see it. 45 ,000

00:31:00.519 --> 00:31:04.119
people absolutely hate the movie, but I'm in

00:31:04.119 --> 00:31:07.380
the middle of, I'm just not seeing it. Uh -huh.

00:31:07.440 --> 00:31:10.660
Yep. I can't say I physically hate it because

00:31:10.660 --> 00:31:14.660
I told people on my last episode, never seen

00:31:14.660 --> 00:31:18.039
it. Try to think of a movie that I've refused

00:31:18.039 --> 00:31:20.980
to see. Probably scary movies. I hate to watch

00:31:20.980 --> 00:31:23.470
anything like that, horror movies. What about

00:31:23.470 --> 00:31:27.710
one of the scary movies that is a spoof off of

00:31:27.710 --> 00:31:31.750
a scary movie? Like Scream back in the day. Did

00:31:31.750 --> 00:31:34.069
you ever watch that? No, I never watched it.

00:31:34.130 --> 00:31:37.990
But what about the movie Scary Movie? I've never

00:31:37.990 --> 00:31:40.089
seen it. I never gave it a chance. Should I?

00:31:40.609 --> 00:31:43.109
Yeah, they're funny. It's like Scary Movie 3

00:31:43.109 --> 00:31:49.569
is funny. They based it off their ring. And it's

00:31:49.569 --> 00:31:54.210
just really funny. And sometimes it's kind of

00:31:54.210 --> 00:31:59.470
like, if you're first seeing it and it's kind

00:31:59.470 --> 00:32:03.869
of, I wouldn't say dark, but you might feel off

00:32:03.869 --> 00:32:05.730
about it. But then when you're watching it with

00:32:05.730 --> 00:32:09.069
a friend or you've just seen it multiple times,

00:32:09.210 --> 00:32:12.410
you just know which part's coming next. And it's

00:32:12.410 --> 00:32:14.849
like, oh, that's funny. Yeah, right. You have

00:32:14.849 --> 00:32:21.250
to be in that right headspace, maybe. So do you

00:32:21.250 --> 00:32:25.309
have any other tips that might be useful to the

00:32:25.309 --> 00:32:31.390
listeners? Yeah, I would say never stop learning

00:32:31.390 --> 00:32:36.049
and to be really conscientious of how you're

00:32:36.049 --> 00:32:39.450
learning, if that helps. So I know a lot of people

00:32:39.450 --> 00:32:41.930
right now, I just did an episode on MBAs and

00:32:41.930 --> 00:32:46.710
the application rates are soaring for MBAs right

00:32:46.710 --> 00:32:50.400
now. People are losing their jobs. They're worried.

00:32:50.519 --> 00:32:53.579
They're trying to pivot. So a lot of people are

00:32:53.579 --> 00:32:55.539
running into some of these master's degrees.

00:32:55.819 --> 00:32:59.720
And I would just caution people to really think

00:32:59.720 --> 00:33:03.839
about what your goals are and don't make decisions

00:33:03.839 --> 00:33:06.539
based off of fear. Maybe an MBA is the right

00:33:06.539 --> 00:33:09.799
decision for you, but... Really look at how much

00:33:09.799 --> 00:33:12.720
it's going to cost and what are you hoping to

00:33:12.720 --> 00:33:15.180
get out of it? You have to have a purpose. And

00:33:15.180 --> 00:33:17.559
we talked a lot about MBAs on my show this week.

00:33:17.880 --> 00:33:19.819
And I just that's something on the top of my

00:33:19.819 --> 00:33:23.559
mind right now. How much does it cost? Like six

00:33:23.559 --> 00:33:26.819
billion dollars a year? Pretty much. Well, the

00:33:26.819 --> 00:33:29.759
high the the top tier schools are between like

00:33:29.759 --> 00:33:31.660
one hundred and fifty thousand, two hundred thousand.

00:33:32.539 --> 00:33:35.039
So it's pretty expensive. And then if you look

00:33:35.039 --> 00:33:37.440
at the salary coming out of those schools, it's.

00:33:37.680 --> 00:33:40.200
like an average of 150 ,000, which is a high

00:33:40.200 --> 00:33:43.099
salary, but I actually expected them to be higher

00:33:43.099 --> 00:33:45.059
coming from like a Harvard or something like

00:33:45.059 --> 00:33:48.859
that. And then you can get, I found that the

00:33:48.859 --> 00:33:52.740
lowest MBA, lowest cost MBA program that you

00:33:52.740 --> 00:33:55.799
can get is from, I think it was called like Georgia

00:33:55.799 --> 00:33:58.880
Southeastern University. It's online and that's

00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:03.500
$7 ,000 for the entire program, which is amazing.

00:34:03.960 --> 00:34:06.779
And so, just really look at the cost of things.

00:34:07.200 --> 00:34:09.460
If you're trying to go to a top tier school,

00:34:09.840 --> 00:34:14.739
do you want to be like a C -suite corporate employee

00:34:14.739 --> 00:34:16.940
at one point? Is that why you're doing it? Are

00:34:16.940 --> 00:34:18.639
you just looking for the name? If you're looking

00:34:18.639 --> 00:34:20.940
for the network, that's great. They have a great

00:34:20.940 --> 00:34:23.179
network, but there's other ways to do that too.

00:34:23.340 --> 00:34:26.760
So just be smart right now. Just be strategic

00:34:26.760 --> 00:34:29.980
because it is stressful. Like career anxiety

00:34:29.980 --> 00:34:34.039
is at a peak right now. So take a second, step

00:34:34.039 --> 00:34:36.860
back. Journal, do whatever you need to do to

00:34:36.860 --> 00:34:42.000
really come up with a plan. Wow. You know, here's

00:34:42.000 --> 00:34:44.820
an idea for Zoom. You know, they need one that

00:34:44.820 --> 00:34:48.260
I don't know. Have you ever seen maybe called

00:34:48.260 --> 00:34:52.659
a mask with Jim Carrey? A long time ago. Yes.

00:34:52.940 --> 00:34:56.079
Well, you know, I think they should have like

00:34:56.079 --> 00:35:01.199
some kind of I would say a Zoom background, but

00:35:01.199 --> 00:35:06.400
some kind of like. I don't know, you know, like

00:35:06.400 --> 00:35:08.980
on Facebook and social media, you can have like

00:35:08.980 --> 00:35:12.320
those funny faces to your face, but you should

00:35:12.320 --> 00:35:17.519
have like one for the mask. And so just the one

00:35:17.519 --> 00:35:20.800
where this jar just dropping open, like every

00:35:20.800 --> 00:35:26.380
time it says a dollar amount, like. That'd be

00:35:26.380 --> 00:35:29.000
good in like a really stuffy business meeting,

00:35:29.119 --> 00:35:32.000
you know, to do that. We just lost this amount

00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:38.420
of money. Have you seen the, it's like a viral

00:35:38.420 --> 00:35:40.940
video where there were some attorneys and they

00:35:40.940 --> 00:35:44.320
were in court via zoom and he was a cat. Have

00:35:44.320 --> 00:35:47.480
you seen that? And it was like this really serious

00:35:47.480 --> 00:35:49.980
meeting. And he was like, I'm not a cat. I cannot

00:35:49.980 --> 00:35:53.139
get the cat off of my screen. And everybody just

00:35:53.139 --> 00:35:55.719
being really serious. It's funny. You should

00:35:55.719 --> 00:36:04.820
check it out. Yeah. Yeah, for me, I know I always

00:36:04.820 --> 00:36:09.139
try to learn new things every single day. I read

00:36:09.139 --> 00:36:15.099
a lot of books. In total, so far, I've read like

00:36:15.099 --> 00:36:20.739
248 books. Wow. That was not a year. Your whole

00:36:20.739 --> 00:36:25.719
life? Okay. I don't know how I would do that.

00:36:26.199 --> 00:36:29.989
Yeah, unless it's like cat in the hat. And books

00:36:29.989 --> 00:36:34.309
my kids read that has like one word on each page.

00:36:35.269 --> 00:36:41.150
I finished. Yep. The cat jumped. Right. Yep.

00:36:41.929 --> 00:36:44.690
And if only I could write a book like that. I

00:36:44.690 --> 00:36:46.889
know. You know, it seems easy to write a kid's

00:36:46.889 --> 00:36:48.650
book until you actually try to write a kid's

00:36:48.650 --> 00:36:51.489
book. I don't think I could do it. No, it's not

00:36:51.489 --> 00:36:53.389
as easy as it looks. There's definitely a lot

00:36:53.389 --> 00:36:58.559
of bad kid books out there. None comes to mind

00:36:58.559 --> 00:37:02.480
at the moment. For me, it's usually ones that

00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:07.219
have like unnecessary name calling and stuff

00:37:07.219 --> 00:37:08.699
like that. And it's like, why? You know, it's

00:37:08.699 --> 00:37:11.800
usually from a few decades ago where it seemed

00:37:11.800 --> 00:37:15.500
like the norm for kids behavior was different.

00:37:16.099 --> 00:37:18.239
You know, when you look at old Disney movies,

00:37:18.519 --> 00:37:22.159
it's definitely changed a lot. That's for sure.

00:37:23.260 --> 00:37:34.210
Yeah. So so how many how many people do you normally

00:37:34.210 --> 00:37:38.849
help in a day? Oh, goodness. Well, I do still

00:37:38.849 --> 00:37:41.269
have like a regular full time job, a corporate

00:37:41.269 --> 00:37:44.590
job. So I like to think I'm helping in a different

00:37:44.590 --> 00:37:50.690
way in that role. Probably like I'm still starting

00:37:50.690 --> 00:37:54.869
out. So one on one clients, I've only. I had

00:37:54.869 --> 00:37:59.030
a few of those at this point. And then I like

00:37:59.030 --> 00:38:01.829
to think I'm helping people when I do my interviews

00:38:01.829 --> 00:38:04.690
too. So I don't know if I had to quantify it.

00:38:05.010 --> 00:38:07.710
Maybe I reach out to individual people like five

00:38:07.710 --> 00:38:14.150
times a week, five individuals. And do all of

00:38:14.150 --> 00:38:19.989
them accept or? Oh no, no, no, no. Like my guests

00:38:19.989 --> 00:38:23.989
definitely don't. Yeah. I would say the hit rate

00:38:23.989 --> 00:38:29.989
for guests is like 30 % maybe say yes. Yeah.

00:38:30.110 --> 00:38:31.969
And this is another thing with podcasters. I

00:38:31.969 --> 00:38:34.090
think there's some who only reach out to warm

00:38:34.090 --> 00:38:36.110
leads and that's a lot easier. So if you already

00:38:36.110 --> 00:38:38.130
know the person, you know, like what we're doing,

00:38:38.170 --> 00:38:41.460
that's. a lot easier of an interview, but sometimes

00:38:41.460 --> 00:38:43.719
I'll see an interesting person or a celebrity

00:38:43.719 --> 00:38:45.460
and I'll be like, Hey, can you be on my show?

00:38:45.579 --> 00:38:47.539
And I never hear back. And then I follow up and

00:38:47.539 --> 00:38:50.539
I still don't hear back. So that happens, but

00:38:50.539 --> 00:38:53.139
I still think, you know, trying to be an optimist

00:38:53.139 --> 00:38:56.480
30%. That's pretty good. You know, that's 30

00:38:56.480 --> 00:39:03.420
% that said, yes, glass 30 % full. I would take

00:39:03.420 --> 00:39:13.130
30%. I take anything. I. For me, I think ever

00:39:13.130 --> 00:39:19.150
since one of my friends kind of just had a friendly

00:39:19.150 --> 00:39:21.909
bet with me about getting as many podcasts as

00:39:21.909 --> 00:39:26.769
possible before Thanksgiving last year. I mean,

00:39:26.789 --> 00:39:29.289
I was still doing quite a bit of shows, but I

00:39:29.289 --> 00:39:32.650
cranked it up because it's like, are you kidding

00:39:32.650 --> 00:39:37.699
me? I was like, no one should bet me. Did you

00:39:37.699 --> 00:39:40.079
have any favorite shows or any shows that stood

00:39:40.079 --> 00:39:45.840
out? I don't know. There was a lot of them. I

00:39:45.840 --> 00:39:49.079
would say they were, it probably would sound

00:39:49.079 --> 00:39:52.199
very corny if I said that they were all my favorite.

00:39:52.980 --> 00:39:55.820
I had to say it kind of is all my favorite. Yeah.

00:39:55.840 --> 00:39:57.599
Well, that's good though. That's good that you

00:39:57.599 --> 00:40:00.780
didn't have any like notably. Bad experiences.

00:40:01.880 --> 00:40:06.539
I mean, I know some of the ones where I had poor

00:40:06.539 --> 00:40:10.679
lighting on the show. And then I had to move

00:40:10.679 --> 00:40:16.619
to my dad's office in the house. And I finally

00:40:16.619 --> 00:40:19.460
got my own ring light, which is pretty good.

00:40:20.920 --> 00:40:27.289
And I guess it changes colors. That's cool. Give

00:40:27.289 --> 00:40:31.909
you a tan. Give me a nice tan. Yeah, I'm at the

00:40:31.909 --> 00:40:34.710
beach. I would love to be at the beach. Yeah,

00:40:34.769 --> 00:40:38.090
that would be nice. You're in Pennsylvania? Yeah.

00:40:38.510 --> 00:40:46.429
Not a beach area. I'm in the cold Arctic area.

00:40:47.510 --> 00:40:49.750
Same here. It's warming up, though, in Wisconsin.

00:40:50.050 --> 00:40:52.969
So hopefully spring is on its way. You know,

00:40:52.989 --> 00:40:55.469
I used to go to Wisconsin every single summer.

00:40:56.090 --> 00:41:01.489
Oh, nice. But that changed. I can't say that.

00:41:01.630 --> 00:41:06.530
Why it changed. Hopefully Wisconsin didn't do

00:41:06.530 --> 00:41:10.190
anything to you. So I don't represent the whole

00:41:10.190 --> 00:41:17.570
state. No, not yet. Yes. Mindset. That's true.

00:41:17.690 --> 00:41:20.090
I don't represent the state yet. I like that.

00:41:23.230 --> 00:41:28.050
So. Where can people follow you on social media?

00:41:28.610 --> 00:41:32.469
Yeah, so I'm on Future Proof Career. It's my

00:41:32.469 --> 00:41:36.070
podcast. And you can find me on LinkedIn, Valerie

00:41:36.070 --> 00:41:40.849
Zarek, Z like zebra, A -R -I -C. And that's my

00:41:40.849 --> 00:41:43.630
handle pretty much everywhere. LinkedIn, Facebook,

00:41:44.010 --> 00:41:47.289
Instagram, Twitter, Clubhouse, if you're on Clubhouse

00:41:47.289 --> 00:41:54.289
as well. And do you have a website as well? Yes.

00:41:54.349 --> 00:41:57.469
Valerie's Eric .com. And you can listen to podcasts

00:41:57.469 --> 00:42:00.590
on that site as well. You can apply to be a guest

00:42:00.590 --> 00:42:03.269
if that's something you're interested in. And

00:42:03.269 --> 00:42:05.289
there, I think there's a link to like leave the

00:42:05.289 --> 00:42:07.630
show or review too, which is always helpful for

00:42:07.630 --> 00:42:13.309
us in podcast land. That's for sure. I'm always

00:42:13.309 --> 00:42:17.650
looking for reviews, always finding them, trying

00:42:17.650 --> 00:42:21.760
to find them. Yeah, I heard a theory that what

00:42:21.760 --> 00:42:24.980
gets podcasts ranked is not necessarily reviews.

00:42:25.119 --> 00:42:27.119
Like I've always been told that, but it's actually

00:42:27.119 --> 00:42:31.059
subscribes. So, you know, subscribe to the show

00:42:31.059 --> 00:42:32.579
too. I'll just put that out there. Subscribe

00:42:32.579 --> 00:42:34.199
to all the shows you like. I think that does

00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:39.559
help us. And it's really funny. I don't know

00:42:39.559 --> 00:42:46.360
how those platforms know how to... How many people's

00:42:46.360 --> 00:42:49.079
subscribers that they have, because if it's all

00:42:49.079 --> 00:42:51.559
an estimate, then we should all be at the top.

00:42:52.760 --> 00:42:56.460
Yeah, that's a good point, too. Well, so I listened

00:42:56.460 --> 00:43:01.099
to a podcast and they did some testing and they

00:43:01.099 --> 00:43:06.099
outsourced this service from on Fiverr. Do you

00:43:06.099 --> 00:43:07.840
ever get these services where they say, hey,

00:43:07.860 --> 00:43:10.619
I can promote your podcast for you for five dollars

00:43:10.619 --> 00:43:13.760
or whatever? Probably like twenty five hundred

00:43:13.760 --> 00:43:17.389
a day. Oh goodness. No, this is like an inexpensive.

00:43:17.469 --> 00:43:19.909
And they basically have like, this is my impression,

00:43:20.030 --> 00:43:23.690
like computer farm where people are just subscribe,

00:43:23.849 --> 00:43:25.469
subscribe, subscribe through all of their iTunes

00:43:25.469 --> 00:43:28.130
accounts. And they said, that's what gets you

00:43:28.130 --> 00:43:30.849
up in the charts. So like the top 100, and that's

00:43:30.849 --> 00:43:33.190
going to get people to find your show, but it

00:43:33.190 --> 00:43:36.050
is against the terms of service to do that. So

00:43:36.050 --> 00:43:38.690
yeah, I'm, I'm scared to do anything like that.

00:43:38.690 --> 00:43:43.769
That could get my show in trouble. So I don't

00:43:43.769 --> 00:43:45.780
think I'm, I don't think I've gotten into trouble

00:43:45.780 --> 00:43:51.159
yet with Apple. Not yet. There's always that

00:43:51.159 --> 00:43:56.239
maybe. You rebel. I probably ticked them off

00:43:56.239 --> 00:44:01.219
a few times. Let's just say it was not my glorious

00:44:01.219 --> 00:44:06.699
moment. Got to hear the story. Okay, fine. I'll

00:44:06.699 --> 00:44:12.960
tell it. Let's just say I was trying to get onto

00:44:12.960 --> 00:44:17.820
their news platform. They gave me kind of the

00:44:17.820 --> 00:44:24.039
worst response ever. And I called them out multiple

00:44:24.039 --> 00:44:28.079
times for it on social media. I didn't like their

00:44:28.079 --> 00:44:31.800
response. I was like, come on, that's ridiculous.

00:44:33.400 --> 00:44:36.920
And then their PR person actually reached out

00:44:36.920 --> 00:44:41.199
to me. Oh, wow. And they said, And I was like,

00:44:41.260 --> 00:44:43.579
I'm so sorry for the response that we gave you.

00:44:43.639 --> 00:44:47.119
You deserve more than what we gave you. Oh, nice.

00:44:47.559 --> 00:44:52.139
And I actually still kind of keep in touch with

00:44:52.139 --> 00:44:55.059
that person just to have a relationship with

00:44:55.059 --> 00:44:58.579
Apple. Nice. And I was like, this is the first

00:44:58.579 --> 00:45:01.159
time a company actually apologized to me. That's

00:45:01.159 --> 00:45:03.179
pretty good, though. So, see, you're probably

00:45:03.179 --> 00:45:07.719
not on the bad side. That was pretty, I don't

00:45:07.719 --> 00:45:11.969
know. good of them to do that yeah i was like

00:45:11.969 --> 00:45:14.230
wow i was like now if only i could get some other

00:45:14.230 --> 00:45:17.489
companies to do that yeah right right it would

00:45:17.489 --> 00:45:21.050
be nice you know i have to quote my in one of

00:45:21.050 --> 00:45:23.800
my One of my favorite shows called The Blacklist.

00:45:24.380 --> 00:45:28.900
And I don't know. Have you ever seen it on NBC?

00:45:29.059 --> 00:45:30.780
Yeah, I had to quit, though. It was too much.

00:45:30.800 --> 00:45:33.719
Is he the dad? Is he not the dad? Is he her father?

00:45:33.900 --> 00:45:35.719
Is he not? I'm just like, oh, my gosh, I don't

00:45:35.719 --> 00:45:38.480
care anymore. I watched like seven episodes or

00:45:38.480 --> 00:45:42.659
seven seasons and I was out. So I'm going to

00:45:42.659 --> 00:45:45.820
get back into watching it because I just love

00:45:45.820 --> 00:45:48.639
all the lines and I want to know who he really

00:45:48.639 --> 00:45:53.000
is. And I actually watched behind the scenes

00:45:53.000 --> 00:45:57.199
of it. I mean, like, of some of what the director

00:45:57.199 --> 00:45:59.500
said. And he was like, you're not going to know

00:45:59.500 --> 00:46:02.659
who he really is until the show is completely

00:46:02.659 --> 00:46:06.579
over. And I was like, unless it gets canceled,

00:46:06.760 --> 00:46:09.920
you'll know who he is. You're talking about the

00:46:09.920 --> 00:46:14.599
James Bader character? And I was like, I want

00:46:14.599 --> 00:46:17.360
to find out who. It's too much. I don't know

00:46:17.360 --> 00:46:19.699
if I can. I can't. I can't do it. It's too much

00:46:19.699 --> 00:46:22.639
of a commitment to make it to the last episode.

00:46:24.179 --> 00:46:29.440
I've done it on a few different shows. But one

00:46:29.440 --> 00:46:33.039
of my favorite quotes, I think that would be

00:46:33.039 --> 00:46:36.840
appropriate, was it's like something along the

00:46:36.840 --> 00:46:42.199
line of. Oh, geez. There's so many good quotes.

00:46:43.219 --> 00:46:45.039
Now, of course, when I'm looking for it, it doesn't

00:46:45.039 --> 00:46:51.880
come. But anyway, it is a funny, well, I wouldn't

00:46:51.880 --> 00:46:54.699
say funny, but it has some funny lines in it.

00:46:55.840 --> 00:46:58.880
It was written well. It is, I would give it that.

00:46:58.980 --> 00:47:01.320
I enjoyed the seasons I watched. It was just

00:47:01.320 --> 00:47:05.739
time for me to part with it. But yeah, I definitely

00:47:05.739 --> 00:47:07.619
think I'm going to go back to it because it just,

00:47:07.619 --> 00:47:13.190
just don't. funny lines and i was like yeah so

00:47:13.190 --> 00:47:16.929
some of them was like uh i was like why do something

00:47:16.929 --> 00:47:19.469
if there's not fun in it or something like that

00:47:19.469 --> 00:47:24.409
and yeah like when i i actually used one of the

00:47:24.409 --> 00:47:27.570
gifs uh one of their gifs on facebook yesterday

00:47:27.570 --> 00:47:31.889
and uh Like I was getting all these emails every

00:47:31.889 --> 00:47:33.989
single day by this person saying, hey, can you

00:47:33.989 --> 00:47:36.630
add a link to my website and everything? I'm

00:47:36.630 --> 00:47:38.489
like, if I haven't answered you the first three

00:47:38.489 --> 00:47:40.949
times, let's try four or five, six, seven, eight,

00:47:41.010 --> 00:47:43.349
nine, ten. Yes. Well, at least they're persistent.

00:47:44.610 --> 00:47:47.670
And I was like, why can't email be smart just

00:47:47.670 --> 00:47:51.150
to get rid of these people? Yeah. Yeah. Dream

00:47:51.150 --> 00:47:54.210
world. Having an assistant to take care of that.

00:47:55.720 --> 00:47:59.139
People, the companies that make email super smart

00:47:59.139 --> 00:48:02.500
and is like this person is abusing the system

00:48:02.500 --> 00:48:05.380
and abusing this email address automatically

00:48:05.380 --> 00:48:11.900
get rid of block. Yeah, right. Yeah. I hate email.

00:48:12.659 --> 00:48:15.320
Yeah, I know. It's hard to keep up with it. And

00:48:15.320 --> 00:48:18.960
there's so many places you. can get emails or

00:48:18.960 --> 00:48:20.900
whatever you call it now, messages. There's like

00:48:20.900 --> 00:48:23.119
LinkedIn messages, Facebook messages, Instagram

00:48:23.119 --> 00:48:25.840
messages. And it's like, do I have to like really

00:48:25.840 --> 00:48:28.639
check all of these different places? It's, it's

00:48:28.639 --> 00:48:30.739
a lot to keep up with. And I liked all the sponsors

00:48:30.739 --> 00:48:34.400
messages on LinkedIn and say, Hey, did you know

00:48:34.400 --> 00:48:36.599
you can do this? And it's like, Hey, did you

00:48:36.599 --> 00:48:43.760
know, I don't care. Now you're, you're going

00:48:43.760 --> 00:48:48.210
to get a apology note from LinkedIn. Well, I

00:48:48.210 --> 00:48:50.070
mean, it's not even from LinkedIn. It's just

00:48:50.070 --> 00:48:52.750
from a bunch of companies and people sending

00:48:52.750 --> 00:48:56.650
me sponsor messages. It is a lot. I feel like

00:48:56.650 --> 00:49:00.030
it. But, you know, I said my 30 % hit rate was

00:49:00.030 --> 00:49:03.150
good. Maybe they get a 10 % hit rate of people

00:49:03.150 --> 00:49:04.949
who actually open the emails. And that's probably

00:49:04.949 --> 00:49:07.789
a lot of people for them. I just ignore it all.

00:49:08.030 --> 00:49:12.369
Yeah, I usually do, too. The only time when I.

00:49:14.219 --> 00:49:17.079
Either don't ignore it as I'm looking for something

00:49:17.079 --> 00:49:22.039
specific from someone, but unless that's not

00:49:22.039 --> 00:49:28.260
the specific person, done, trash, ignore. Yeah,

00:49:28.380 --> 00:49:29.940
you don't have time for that. You have too many

00:49:29.940 --> 00:49:33.380
things going on, Jimmy. Especially when people

00:49:33.380 --> 00:49:36.960
just message me and say, hey, never hear back

00:49:36.960 --> 00:49:39.360
from them again. It's like, who the hell is this

00:49:39.360 --> 00:49:42.039
person? Yeah. Yeah. Hopefully I haven't been

00:49:42.039 --> 00:49:44.119
guilty of that. Hey, Jimmy. And then I failed

00:49:44.119 --> 00:49:48.400
to follow up. Well, some person messaged me like

00:49:48.400 --> 00:49:52.460
the other day asking me if I still want to be

00:49:52.460 --> 00:49:54.780
like, I mean, didn't even ask me, like just sent

00:49:54.780 --> 00:49:56.800
me a calendar link. And it's like, who's this

00:49:56.800 --> 00:49:59.519
person? And I didn't even introduce them. And

00:49:59.519 --> 00:50:02.239
it's like, hey, I'm from so -and -so group. I'm

00:50:02.239 --> 00:50:04.239
in like 20 different Facebook groups. And it's

00:50:04.239 --> 00:50:09.579
like. who the hell are you and then i i had to

00:50:09.579 --> 00:50:12.460
ask the person like are you legit and it's like

00:50:12.460 --> 00:50:14.559
yeah i'm legit and i was like i'm just making

00:50:14.559 --> 00:50:17.260
sure i'm not trying to be offensive but there's

00:50:17.260 --> 00:50:20.219
a lot of spam so i got like the thousands of

00:50:20.219 --> 00:50:23.380
spam messages a day and email and facebook and

00:50:23.380 --> 00:50:27.599
instagram and linkedin i'm like yeah yeah it's

00:50:27.599 --> 00:50:30.360
a lot can i have a filter that says legitimate

00:50:30.360 --> 00:50:34.260
only Oh, really? I'll have to check that out.

00:50:34.539 --> 00:50:37.119
I mean, like, I would love this. Oh, I was like,

00:50:37.159 --> 00:50:38.940
that's kind of funny that LinkedIn would offer.

00:50:40.000 --> 00:50:44.179
That would be nice. Yeah. Hey, opportunity, app

00:50:44.179 --> 00:50:50.579
opportunity. Exactly. So before we wrap up, do

00:50:50.579 --> 00:50:54.579
you have any other suggestions? Probably my final

00:50:54.579 --> 00:50:57.980
suggestion. I think that there's a point where

00:50:57.980 --> 00:51:00.679
career anxiety is kind of normal. You know, everyone's

00:51:00.679 --> 00:51:03.849
a little bit. curious about the future and very

00:51:03.849 --> 00:51:06.309
few people feel like excited about the future

00:51:06.309 --> 00:51:08.710
every single day. So there's some level of anxiety

00:51:08.710 --> 00:51:12.309
that's normal. And if it's not normal, you know,

00:51:12.329 --> 00:51:15.110
if you're feeling, you know, like physically

00:51:15.110 --> 00:51:17.190
distressed, mentally distressed at all, then

00:51:17.190 --> 00:51:19.809
definitely get some help. There's so many resources

00:51:19.809 --> 00:51:22.750
now, especially with COVID, you know, virtual

00:51:22.750 --> 00:51:25.309
resources that you can utilize if that stress

00:51:25.309 --> 00:51:29.489
is getting to be more than what you think is

00:51:29.489 --> 00:51:37.570
healthy. And, yeah, one more thing. I know for

00:51:37.570 --> 00:51:42.329
myself that writing in a journal has helped me

00:51:42.329 --> 00:51:45.250
deal with some of the stress. I even have a blog

00:51:45.250 --> 00:51:49.230
post that a company shared on their Facebook

00:51:49.230 --> 00:51:53.269
page. So they must really like that post as well.

00:51:53.690 --> 00:51:56.710
Nice. It's not like I told them to share it.

00:51:56.769 --> 00:52:00.460
They just mentioned my... brand name, crazy fitness

00:52:00.460 --> 00:52:03.619
guy, along with the post. And it's like, wow,

00:52:03.780 --> 00:52:08.260
I guess you got shared on the 69 best and likes

00:52:08.260 --> 00:52:10.900
and followers Facebook page. And it's like, yeah,

00:52:10.900 --> 00:52:17.199
exciting. I'm going up in the world. I hope that's

00:52:17.199 --> 00:52:20.900
where I'm going or I don't know. I would suggest

00:52:20.900 --> 00:52:24.780
for you too, is like doing some outreach to press

00:52:24.780 --> 00:52:28.340
as well, you know, being. You know, you can reach

00:52:28.340 --> 00:52:31.019
out to press with pitches of different stories

00:52:31.019 --> 00:52:33.019
and articles to get your name out there as well.

00:52:33.800 --> 00:52:37.400
You mean like the local press? You could do local

00:52:37.400 --> 00:52:39.039
and then work your way up to some of the bigger

00:52:39.039 --> 00:52:43.380
press. How would you go by doing that? Yeah.

00:52:43.579 --> 00:52:47.440
So I did a boot camp class about how to do this.

00:52:48.360 --> 00:52:50.219
There's people you can hire to help you with

00:52:50.219 --> 00:52:53.099
it, but you can just send a pitch. So say like

00:52:53.099 --> 00:52:57.420
whatever your pitch is. like movie music, or

00:52:57.420 --> 00:52:59.380
was it, is that what it's called? Music? The

00:52:59.380 --> 00:53:02.900
movie doesn't represent the autistic community.

00:53:03.079 --> 00:53:05.199
It could be your pitch and then send it out to

00:53:05.199 --> 00:53:07.760
different outlets and see if someone picks it

00:53:07.760 --> 00:53:10.019
up. You might get a 1 % hit, right? You know,

00:53:10.039 --> 00:53:12.619
you never know, but just like pitch some different

00:53:12.619 --> 00:53:15.880
story ideas out there. And then when you're doing

00:53:15.880 --> 00:53:18.360
that, then you say, Hey, and I'm crazy fitness

00:53:18.360 --> 00:53:21.820
guy. Check out my site. I might try that. Yeah.

00:53:22.349 --> 00:53:24.550
I would try that. And the other thing you could

00:53:24.550 --> 00:53:28.150
do, there's HARO, Help a Reporter Out, H -A -R

00:53:28.150 --> 00:53:31.250
-O. Are you on that? Yeah. I haven't done anything

00:53:31.250 --> 00:53:34.210
in a while with them. Yeah. I haven't had luck

00:53:34.210 --> 00:53:36.250
on there, but a lot of people have. And then

00:53:36.250 --> 00:53:39.429
there's another tool called Quoted, Q -W -O -T

00:53:39.429 --> 00:53:41.590
-E -D. You're going to have to send me that link

00:53:41.590 --> 00:53:44.170
to that one. Yeah, yeah. And that's kind of like

00:53:44.170 --> 00:53:47.030
a HARO where you connect with reporters. But

00:53:47.030 --> 00:53:50.449
you have such a good niche that I think there's

00:53:50.449 --> 00:53:54.469
opportunity for you. I hope so. Yeah, I think

00:53:54.469 --> 00:53:59.809
so. And thanks for being a guest on Crazy Fitness

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